Time to Admit it: Women Like Porn Too (Published!)

I was recently published in an online magazine for 17-22 year old single women (On My Own Now). Check it out! Thoughts? Feelings? Reactions? ——————– Time to Admit it: Women Like Porn Too by Sydney Clark (pg. 10) Some girls when they are craving emotional intimacy from males go straight to guys. They jump from one boyfriend … Continue reading →

The Death of Humanity

Yes, I know that is quite the dramatic title. I don’t mean it in an “it’s so fluffy, I’m going to die!” sort of way, or even a “your candidate didn’t win the presidential election” way. What I am referring to is the death of what it means to be human- the death of human … Continue reading →

Letter To My Future Husband

Okay, maybe I’m a really big jerk, but I just have to ask, what if you never get married? Ahhhhh- singleness and the Church. I remember being encouraged to write letters to my future husband. It came up multiple times throughout the 6 years I spent in my church’s youth group. I remember thinking that … Continue reading →

What’s Wrong With Me

On Thursday, I was asked to write a blog post for a church in Madison, WI bringing awareness to the issue of pornography and masturbation for women. Original post at http://madisonalliancechurch.org/blog/whats-wrong-with-me/. ———- What’s Wrong With Me Growing up in my church’s youth group I remember dreading February. Those of you who grew up attending a church youth … Continue reading →

Modesty: A Definition

I really should have given this post a different title because there will be no clean cut definition of modesty given here. But, if you would like to read my musings feel free… As I mentioned in a previous post (Modesty: What’s In A Word) , I believe that modesty has very little to do … Continue reading →

Modesty: What’s In A Word?

Answer: A whole heck of a lot! As I mentioned in my intro post, I grew up in an Evangelical home attending an Evangelical church and thus I learned from an early age that modesty was of the utmost importance. In fact, girls should take it upon themselves to protect their seemingly powerless brothers in … Continue reading →

Myth Debunked: Men are more visual than women

It never ceases to amaze me the stories I’m told when I mention to someone, particularly a female, that I’m interested in sexuality. It’s as if they don’t have a friend to confide in and they know I won’t judge them for what they’re about to tell me. Whatever their reasoning, I’m certainly not complaining. … Continue reading →

Turn Your Sexy On!

A couple of months ago I read this blog post entitled: “Ask A Married Woman: How Did You Go From Virgin To Sexy And Seductive.”  If you’re a single woman (or perhaps a curious married one) and you haven’t read this yet, doooo it! These are the types of things I like to talk about. … Continue reading →

Breaking the Cycle

It’s amazing how God causes you to cross paths with people with whom you share similar struggles. A few weeks ago I had the privilege of reconnecting with a friend and she shared with me her struggle with pornography. I had told her about my 8 year struggle with porn 2 years ago, and now … Continue reading →

XXX

Tonight, my pastor, who’s background is in youth ministry, looked me in the eyes and told me that porn is a guy’s issue. Back story: This evening, I went to dinner at my pastor’s house. While his wife was upstairs putting the kids to bed, he filled me and the other couple who was in attendance … Continue reading →